I’m not sure
how to say this without sounding obnoxious, but I really don’t need to make New
Year’s resolutions about practicing good habits. I’m already pretty compulsive
about exercise. I eat a healthy diet (chocolate is a health food, right?) I take daily showers. I keep my mind
sharp with crossword puzzles and Sudoku. I recycle paper, plastic and glass, shut
off the lights when I leave a room, and set the thermostat five degrees colder
than I’d like in the winter and five degrees warmer than I’d like in the
summer. I stay informed about the world around me by reading two newspapers
every day. I look after my mother and help my neighbors. I’m a loyal wife and a
proud mom.
I’ve got my
weaknesses, of course. (Chocolate is not
a weakness! It’s a health food!) I don’t lose my temper very often, but I’m
prone to sulking. I can be impatient, lazy, and inattentive. While the rest of
my house is reasonably neat, my office looks as if a hurricane tore through it.
And—all right—I should probably eat less chocolate.
But when it
comes to New Year’s resolutions, the standard ones just aren’t relevant to me.
What I do need are some writing
resolutions, guidelines that will help me be a more productive and happier
writer. So this year, I resolve to:
1. Sweat the small stuff. In life, the small stuff
usually doesn’t matter. In writing, it does. As a writer, I resolve to care
about every word choice, every punctuation mark, and every rule of grammar—even
if I ultimately decide I need to break that rule. Craft counts, and I want my
books not just to tell a great story but to be well crafted.
2. Keep up with the business. Now that I’m
independently publishing some of my books, I’ve grown reasonably knowledgeable
about the business side of writing, but I have so much more to learn. Even if I
don’t feel like reading blogs about analytics, algorithms, and keywords, I resolve
to study them until they make sense to me. In the brave new world of
publishing, I don’t have the luxury of being a delicate artiste who can’t be bothered with the business side of things.
3. Stop measuring my career against anyone else’s. No
matter how successful I am, someone will always be more successful than me. So
what? I resolve to measure success by my own personal standards. Am I writing
the kinds of books I want and need to write? Am I writing them well? Am I getting
them into readers’ hands? If the answers to those questions are yes, yes, and
yes, I’m successful.
4. Be true to my muse. Writing is hard enough without
entering into battle with the creative energy that fuels my inspiration. If
everyone is writing erotica but my muse doesn’t want me to write erotica, I resolve
to spare myself a great deal of frustration and torment by ignoring the trends and
writing what my muse is telling me to write.
5. Take my time. I don’t have to do everything today.
If a book is taking longer to write than I’d planned, there’s probably a good
reason for that. You can’t rush a soufflé without the risk of having it
collapse. The same goes for books. I resolve to remind myself that whatever
doesn’t get done today can get done tomorrow.
6. Read lots of books. (Nobody ever said New Year’s
resolutions couldn’t be fun!) I resolve to read books by authors I’ve never
heard of, in genres I don’t usually read.
7. Exercise, eat nutritious food, and exercise kindness
and compassion. Yes, those are the lifestyle resolutions I swore I didn’t
need. And I don’t need them for my lifestyle. I do need them for my writing, and I resolve to pursue healthy habits.
They will help to keep my life in balance, and that’s essential for a writer.
And finally, I resolve to keep on eating and enjoying
chocolate. Just because.
Dead Ball, the first
book in Judith Arnold’s humorous
mystery series about a suburban schoolteacher and recreational soccer player
suspected of murdering her teammate’s husband with a nail gun, will be released
by Bell Bridge Books in the next few weeks. Until then, check out her Daddy School romance series (Father Found, the first book in the series, is free!)
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Okay, so when it's my turn to blog this cycle, I'm just rerunning yours! I think you said it all, Judith, and so eloquently! Cheers to your 2014!
ReplyDeleteI need to post this list on my office wall--especially highlighting #s 5-7!
ReplyDeleteGreat advice...which I need to follow!
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ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you ... but especially about the chocolate!
ReplyDeleteAwesome suggestions - I love it and plan to print it out and pin it up where I can see it. And of course, chocolate is a health food. Anyone knows that!
ReplyDeleteLove your resolutions, especially the one involving chocolate. Hubby must have anticipated this resolution. He bought me a HUGE box of chocolate covered cherries for Christmas, which I am faithfully consuming--for health reasons, of course. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad all you medical experts have confirmed my suspicions about the health benefits of chocolate. I'll celebrate by eating some right now!
ReplyDeleteGosh, I'm feeling like such a slacker next to you. I'm just happy you love chocolate! I love that you exercise kindness, and those resolutions you set, they're terrific. Happy New Year!
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