By
Saralee Rosenberg
This year
marks my twenty-fifth anniversary as an author and I'm happy to report that the silver
hasn't yet tarnished. Eight of my books have been published, (four novels and
four non-fiction titles), and my new work-in-progress is a departure for me- a novel for younger readers called THE MIDDLE SCHOOL MEDIUM.
Indeed, one of the first rules of publishing fiction is to reinvent
yourself or die! The second rule is to avoid exclamation points!!!!!!!!!
In honor
of my two and a half decades in the trenches, here are twenty- five things I
know for sure about writing and/or life.
1. Readers, reviewers, agents and
editors are idiots unless, of course, they love what you wrote. Just kidding.
They may not “get” you but they know what they like so listen and learn.
2. Read how-to guides and
blogs, take classes and spend the summer in Iowa. But at some point just write
the damn book.
3. If you breathe life into your
characters, by page 50 you'll hear the natal heart beat. And that is the point
they are big and strong enough to take the story in the direction you had no
idea you were going.
4. If your characters are not
leading the way by page 50, you made a wrong turn.
5. When nothing is going right,
go left.
6. Input and feedback matter, but
not too soon. The rush for accolades and encouragement can destroy potentially
great ideas before they've had time to percolate. Resist the temptation to ask
for comments until you're on solid ground.
7. Input and feedback matter, but
only from the right people. Those with an agenda or who like/love you too much
to be brutally honest are doing you no favors. You only need a few trustworthy,
gentle readers to keep you in check.
8. Admire other writers but don't
aspire to be them. We don't need Richard Russo light. Aspire instead to bring yourself to the
party. We'd love to hear YOUR voice.
9. Just when your story feels
like it's falling apart it may actually be falling into place.
10. Have faith.
11. You can't edit what you didn't write.
12. The Internet is a time suck. You show me a writer who is jumping between Facebook and a manuscript and I'll show you a writer who is writing crap.
13. Yes, yes. Crap sells. That doesn't mean you
have to contribute to the shlock pile. Give us your absolute best work.
14. Enjoy elation when it occurs.
Whether it's finishing a book, getting an agent, an advance, a deal, a great
review, an award, an interview, making the best-seller list or just hearing
from a reader who sings your praises, take time to be excited. You get nothing
in writing that guarantees it will ever happen again.
15. Take criticism but not disrespect. Anyone who
is rude, dismissive or mean spirited is not worthy of your time and talent.
16. If someone turns you down,
move on. Every door that closes brings you one step closer to the door that was
meant to open.
17. Follow your instincts and
trust that your ideas are coming from a higher place. A place that honors you.
18. Write daring. Your job is to
disturb the Universe.
19. Care a great deal about your
well being and that of your characters.
20. Don’t waste time worrying about something that has not yet
happened. There is a no-refund policy on time spent dwelling on the future.
Worry only when a problem has presented itself and only if fixing the problem
is within your power.
21. There are no such things as
problems. Only opportunities to do things differently.
22. If you are writing to dazzle
and impress then you should become a speech writer. Novelists will better serve
their readers by telling stories that matter.
23. Pushing to write a certain number of pages per
day is like committing to driving a certain number of miles on a long road
trip. You may arrive but you'll have missed the great scenery and possibly the
turns that you should have taken.
24. Thank everyone you meet for
whatever service, friendship or act of kindness they show you. This has nothing
to do with writing, but an attitude of gratitude will lighten your load.
25. No matter what, if your
blessings outweigh your burdens consider yourself among the very luckiest.
So that's it from the trenches. Happy writing. Oh and dream big! I did
and it brought me to you.
Saralee
Rosenberg