Sunday, November 11, 2012

Book Review: Switch -- How to Change Things When Change is Hard

By Marilyn Brant

Normally, I'd jump at the chance to share with you all one of the, ohh, five hundred and forty-two thousand novels in my office (only a slight exaggeration) for my first Girlfriends book review.

But, while I do have several impressive stacks of great fiction scattered about, the book I've been reading lately (and, in fact, rereading in numerous spots) is actually a nonfiction project called SWITCH: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard by Chip and Dan Heath. Any of you already familiar with it?

The reason I wanted to share it here is because I know many of our blog readers are aspiring or published authors. And, seriously, this book couldn't be geared more toward those of us trying to find a place in the publishing world...especially during the insane month of NaNo when there's such a focus on writing more prolifically than ever and, yet, we have other obligations pulling at us. As I was reading through the 300+ pages of text, I kept thinking, "Novelists can draw some great career advice from this! And, hey, maybe it'll also help me stick to my exercise program a little better, too..." LOL.

This is what the publisher, Broadway Books/Crown, had to say about SWITCH:

Why is it so hard to make lasting changes in our companies, in our communities, and in our own lives?

The primary obstacle is a conflict that’s built into our brains, say Chip and Dan Heath, authors of the critically acclaimed bestseller Made to Stick. Psychologists have discovered that our minds are ruled by two different systems—the rational mind and the emotional mind—that compete for control. The rational mind wants a great beach body; the emotional mind wants that Oreo cookie. The rational mind wants to change something at work; the emotional mind loves the comfort of the existing routine. This tension can doom a change effort—but if it is overcome, change can come quickly.

In Switch, the Heaths show how everyday people—employees and managers, parents and nurses—have united both minds and, as a result, achieved dramatic results:
● The lowly medical interns who managed to defeat an entrenched, decades-old medical practice that was endangering patients.
● The home-organizing guru who developed a simple technique for overcoming the dread of housekeeping.
● The manager who transformed a lackadaisical customer-support team into service zealots by removing a standard tool of customer service

In a compelling, story-driven narrative, the Heaths bring together decades of counterintuitive research in psychology, sociology, and other fields to shed new light on how we can effect transformative change. Switch shows that successful changes follow a pattern, a pattern you can use to make the changes that matter to you, whether your interest is in changing the world or changing your waistline.
 
One of the many things I appreciated about the Heath brothers' theory is that it focused on three easy-to-understand avenues for change: the Rider (our thoughts), the Elephant (our emotions)  and the Path (our environment). If we're able to "Direct the Rider, Motivate the Elephant and Shape the Path," we're able to significantly alter our course. I found their examples to be clear and logical, regardless of what areas in life a person wishes to create change.

But the segment that really reminded me of the long journey to publication (and all of those roadblocks and rejections we face) and struck me as an insight particularly helpful for writers was a passage I found on page 169. The Heath brothers were talking about "creating the expectation of failure" and how, counterintuitively, warning workers/team members in a company that they should EXPECT to meet with hardship and frustration as they worked on their projects was, ultimately, an act of optimism.

They wrote (and the italics are theirs), "That's the paradox of the growth mindset. Although it seems to draw attention to failure, and in fact encourages us to seek out failure, it is unflaggingly optimistic. We will struggle, we will fail, we will be knocked down -- but throughout, we'll get better, and we'll succeed in the end. The growth mindset, then, is a buffer against defeatism. It reframes failure as a natural part of the change process. And that's critical, because people will persevere only if they perceive falling down as learning rather than as failing."

All I could do in response to that was to nod, nod again, and say, "Yeah..."
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Marilyn Brant writes award-winning women's fiction and romantic comedy. Her debut novel, According to Jane, won RWA's Golden Heart Award for Best Mainstream Novel, the Booksellers' Best Award and the Aspen Gold, among other honors. It was named one of Buzzle.com's "100 Best Romance Novels of All Time," (she takes great delight in reminding her not-always-so-romantic husband about that), and the trade paperback edition is on special sale at Amazon right now. Her latest novel is A Summer in Europe, which was a Literary Guild, BOMC2 and Rhapsody Book Club pick.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Five Tips for Surviving a First Draft

by Malena Lott

I love the idea of NaNoWriMo. Writers around the world pecking away at a keyboard, putting the stories in their minds on paper, many for the first time. And then there are writers like me who have attempted "NanoNovember" for seven years and only "won" two, which means I hit 50,000 word count. For a professional writer, writing 1900 words a day isn't a big stretch. But doing it every day to get to 50K can be a big challenge, even for the high-stamina daily writers among us. No matter how long that first draft takes us, it's tough. I'm trying to finish the last 50k of my first mystery/suspense story, so you can be sure I'm in the speed boat with you, writers. The pic to the right is me last week at Starbucks with my handy iPad (I use omm or iWriter) and fold up bluetooth keyboard. Here are my five tips for surviving the first draft. 

  1.  Auto program the coffee pot so you can plug that caffeine drip in as soon as you wake. No Facebookin' or tweeting before you get your word count in. Trust me on this. I have to have the pot of dark roast made before I get up at 6 a.m. I can't write more than this: hieooafhewnfanvzjod without a strong cup of java. 
  2. Have a plan of attack. You wouldn't go on a trip without deciding where you're going and how you're going to get there, right? And rearranging your schedule to make the trip possible? Same goes for your first draft. Know what you're story is about before you get started - at least the goal, motivation, big conflict and main characters - is key, and then invite your characters into your convertible with the top down and enjoy the ride! (And do not allow the naysayers in the backseat. They will try to get you to pull over and go back, and that's not conducive to First Draft Finish Line.)
  3. Go into hiding. You'll only survive your first draft by cozying up to your story. For me, that means to write in my studio in the garage where it's quiet and I can't hear the kids and hubby getting ready for school. Depending on your circumstances, it may mean keeping your novel-writing affair quiet. I mean, you and your first draft are intimate. You don't have to spill the beans of every base you get to. Besides, no one is going to understand why you are so infatuated with your story but you. You going ALL THE WAY is totally your business. They'll understand why you were so infatuated when it's all done and you get the book deal. 
  4. Be gentle on yourself. Be tough on yourself. So here's where the yin-yangy business comes into writing your first draft. You have to go easy on yourself in regards to not judging your writing at this leg of the journey and you have to be tough on yourself to see your story through to the end. You get to keep your butt on the seat even when you don't feel "in the mood" and honor that time with your story. If you're like me, the ahas may come when you are not in front of your computer, but you still need sit and write every day.
  5. Make writing a top priority. The first draft can't become a second or third or final draft until it's completed, which means you have to make writing an "inked" to-do, not a penciled in, if I get around to it. I'm living, breathing proof that you can still hold down a job and be a good mom while writing a novel. Just be selective of how you spend your time. For me, no (or a little) TV and working from home (owning my own business) helps keep fiction-writing a top priority, but I'm still a dance mom, den mom, homework helper and so on. What I'm NOT is a good cook, great housekeeper or social butterfly. I would choose work and writing over grocery shopping any day. But I know plenty of writers that keep the dust bunnies at bay. Just choose what works for you. Or who, if you can hire a maid and a cook. *I wish*


I also achieve word count by hopping around in the story if I need to. I try to keep things pretty linear, so often it's more about going back and filling in a scene because of a new plot point or twist or sub-plot versus skipping ahead. The truth is, you'll never know unless you try. Give yourself permission to experiment. You can always cut stuff later. 


Happy reading and writing, friends. 

GIVEAWAY:
Today I'm giving away a digital copy of any one of my ebooks gifted to your Kindle or Nook to one lucky commenter. Books to choose from: 
Novels: Fixer Upper, The Stork Reality or my new novel, Something New
Novellas: Life's a Beach or The Last Resort

I'm also running a November promo. If you buy Something New in the Kindle store, I'll gift you one of my short stories. Either "Snowflakes and Stones," or "The Pool Boy." Just email me your receipt to malenalott (at) me (dot) com before month's end.

Praise for Something New


“Something New is something wonderful! Malena Lott understands love…and knows that it’s ageless. This book is a treasure.”—Ellen Meister, author of The Other Life
“I am completely smitten with Something New: it’s endearing, romantic, and utterly satisfying, with characters so well-developed they feel like old friends. Highly recommended for mothers, daughters, granddaughters, and sisters.”
—Jess Riley, author of Driving Sideways
“Utterly charming, romantic, and beautifully written, Something New is the story of three generations of mothers and daughters struggling to define their relationships and to ultimately find their own place in the world. I absolutely loved it!” —Maria Geraci, author of A Girl Like You 
“Three generations of women in Malena Lott’s Something New discover that it’s never too late to rediscover and redefine some things old, like love and family. The Apples are witty, passionate women with just enough angst to remind us of people we know…like ourselves.”- Christa Allan, author of Love Finds You in New Orleans

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

How to keep NaNoWriMo from becoming NaNoOhNo by Christa Allan




Perhaps yesterday’s election will supercharge your NaNoWriMo (For those who think I’ve been reduced to babbling syllables, read Wendy Nelson Takunaga’s post) passion, and you will be blessed with endless streams of words.

Or not.

A few years ago, I attempted my first NaNoWriMo and stalled before the end of day five. When I started including writing grocery lists and song lyrics like, “Do dody doby do do doo de la da da da da ya” (Sinatra’s Strangers in the Night) to umph my word count, I surrendered. And I’m still waving the same white flag while standing on the sidelines to cheer all those brave laptop warriors.

For those of you who find yourselves at the end of week one today, and don’t know what to do when you don’t know what to do, I hope this tip helps you on your word journey.

Try journaling a la Natalie Goldberg in Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within. For those of you familiar with Julia Cameron’s morning pages, this journaling is similar, minus two pages. I’ve journaled now for over fifteen years, and I continue to be awed by what this simple practice can crack open in my writing soul. In fact, the prologue for my debut novel began as a journal prompt.

So, without further blabbering and promoting for those of you eager to return to your NaNo, I’m listing the guidelines below. Some are non-negotiable. I’ve starred those.

1.     Write for at least ten minutes. Set a timer; do not depend on your inner clock.*
2.     Give yourself a prompt (or not).  When I’m stuck in novels, I journal to my characters, or as one of them, journal plot ideas, conflicts, settings, my frustration…whatever.
3.     Your pen/pencil must NOT leave the paper or your fingers should not leave the keyboard. Seriously. As soon as you lift the pen or stop your fingers, you are thinking, and thinking is not allowed during journaling. The point is to allow what’s in your brain to flow through your arms into your hands and onto the page.*
4.     Staying on topic is not important.
5.     Do not allow your internal editor a voice during these ten minutes. If you write about your friend’s bad breath, s/he will never know.*
6.     Don’t toss anything out. You never know what you can mine out of your journals.

Another quick tip is writing sprints. Challenge a friend to 1,000 words in a hour.  My oh-so-funny and talented friend Jenny B. Jones and I contact each other via g-chat. Some use  Twitter…whatever works. You set a time and then check in at the end of the hour.

Carry on brave NaNoWri-mers. You’re one-fourth of the way. Know there are tribes cheering you on.


(The photo above was made by one of my students after a writing exercise using Play-Doh.)



Christa Allan is the author of Walking on Broken Glass, The Edge of Grace, Love Finds You in New Orleans and Threads of Hope (March 2013. You can find her at www.christaallan.com, Facebook, and Twitter. When she's not frantically meeting deadlines, she teaches high school English. Christa and her husband recently moved to New Orleans to live in a home older than their combined ages. Their three neurotic cats are adjusting.

Monday, November 5, 2012

YOU TELL YOUR DOG FIRST: Election Day Edition

Hi!  So tomorrow, November 6, 2012, is a BIG DAY!

I hope you'll be out rocking the vote.  I also really hope you'll consider picking up a copy of my new book YOU TELL YOUR DOG FIRST. It's officially out in the world and available at a bookstore near you. It's also available online at Amazon, Barnes&Noble, IndieBound and other fine online retailers.

This book is very near and dear to my heart. It's a memoir about my life with dogs. It's also about New York City, friendships, family and my search for inner peace, love and happiness. It's my favorite by far of my six books and I hope you'll think so, too.

If you'd like to read the first chapter, I've posted it here.

Many thanks and happy reading. And voting!

-Alison

p.s. If you'd like to find me online, I'm there!
www.alisonpace.com
www.facebook.com/alisonpacebooks
www.twitter.com/alisonpace
www.alisonpace.tumblr.com
www.pinterest.com/thealishow (Yes, my Pinterest name is thealishow. I kind of love that.)

p.p.s. BONUS POINTS for helping me spread the word.

THANKS!!

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Sacked by Sandy

I was really looking forward to this blog post--I love writing tips. And sometimes making suggestions for other writers gets my creaky gears groaning, too.

But then life intervened--in the form of Hurricane Sandy. Or Cyclone Sandy or tropical storm Sandy or whatever you want to call her. All I know is I was at the end of a lovely vacation, when Sandy stranded me for four extra days. 

In Rome. 

Italy.

I know. It's hard to feel sorry for someone stranded in Rome. And I did eat more than my share of amazing pizza while waiting for news of the storm as it roared toward our home in Connecticut. But I didn't write a word, either for you or for me.

So my best, short writing advice? Apply butt to chair, hold your nose and write, as my good friend Hallie Ephron would say.

On the other hand, if you're still waiting in the dark and the cold, or your house was damaged, or you've lost some precious sense of safety because of the storm, please know that we are all holding you in our hearts. Don't worry about writing now--the words will come when the time is right.

Lucy Burdette is the author of the Key West food critic mysteries, most recently DEATH IN FOUR COURSES.  Read more at her website, or follow her on Twitter, or like her on facebook.

Friday, November 2, 2012

Saturday Book Giveaway: My Jane Austen Summer

by Cindy Jones

Speaking of Operators:  three sons helped launch my novel.
Operators are standing by to enter your name into a random drawing to receive a copy of My Jane Austen Summer.  And depending on how my day is going: sun shining, children in one piece, politicians civil--we might send copies to two lucky winners!

And not only that--we'll throw in a package of Lily Berry's Pink Rose Tea, a green tea with roses and berries created by Bingley's Teas, Ltd. to enhance the reader's connection with the story (or lower your blood pressure if your Saturday needs civilizing).  

You should read My Jane Austen Summer if:



  1. You ever wanted to live in a novel,
  2. You, or someone you know, struggles to be the protagonist in their own life,
  3. You are curious to know how Jane Austen sustains her wild popularity from the grave

Leave a comment and an email address in the section below to be entered into the random drawing, and while you're at it, tell me how your day is going.

Story:  
Lily is caught in a cycle of loss:  her mother died of cancer, her boyfriend left her for an earth mother, and she’s been fired from her job for reading Jane Austen novels when she should have been routing payroll tax deposits.  When the opportunity arises to travel to England to re-enact Mansfield Park, she thinks she may finally realize her dream of living in a novel.  But even in England, where Lily is immersed in a literary festival so rich it seems Jane Austen is present, her problems find her.  Lily must summon her resources and confront painful truths before she is demoted to the role of secondary character in her own life.  
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Cindy Jones is the author of My Jane Austen Summer as well as work-in-progress about look-alike friends who trade places while under dangerous influence of Romantic Poets.  Follow:    


Think. Vote. Please. (I interrupt for a PSA)

by Judy Merrill Larsen


I can be cynical.  Sarcastic.  But, there are some things that I do hold sacred.  Midnight service on Christmas Eve always brings me to tears.  Buying lemonade from little kids at a ratty card table on a hot summer day.  My mom's peach jam.  And voting.  I get all verklempt when I leave the polling place.  I think of the men and women who died so I could do this.  I think of the big brains over 200 years ago who dreamed this all up.  And I say a little prayer of thanks to all of them when I pull that lever.




I remember coming home from teaching high school on September 11, 2001.  I'd been comforting kids all day, assuring them things were going to be okay when all I wanted to do was find my two sons and hug them tight. And have my mom give me a hug and assure me everything was going to be okay.  When I pulled in my driveway and dropped my backpack on the kitchen floor, I went straight to our coat closet and got out our American flag and hung it out on our porch.  And when I did that, that one simple thing, I felt comforted.  I felt like I was saying to all the world--"Hey!  We're America!  Watch us.  We're not going to crumble."  





And we didn't.  We survived.  Other countries still look at our democracy and want to emulate it.  People still want to come here.  People still believe in the American Dream.


And next Tuesday, we get to vote, a right that people in other countries are still dying for.


I remember four years ago, seeing a picture on the front page of The New York Times that stunned me. And it haunts me still. It was of a little boy, a toddler, with both of his ankles in casts. He was from one of the African nations struggling to have fair elections in the midst of war. Men had come in, and when his mother refused to say where his father was and how they had voted, they shattered the little boy's ankles.


Think about that for a minute if you can. Think of the terror and horror his mother endured. The pain of the little boy. These were people who faced brutality and possible death just for trying to vote. 

We have an election on the horizon and while there have been lots and lots (and lots!) of words said and written about it, there are people who won't vote because they are too busy or they just plumb forget or they don't care. There are also people who will vote without being informed. They'll vote one way because of TV ads or skin color or internet rumors that are e-mailed and forwarded by idiots (sorry, Dad.).

And I want those people to think of that little boy and his mother.

Now don't worry, I'm not going to get into a partisan discussion rant here--there's enough of that already (Facebook, anyone?).  And everyone has the right to make up their own minds and vote for who and what they believe in.  Because what's important is voting.  Making your voice heard.


So, in the midst of NANOWRIMO, and the devastation of Hurricane Sandy, and all the million things that you think must be done now, please take the time to vote.  And while you're at it, see if someone you know needs a ride or a reminder.


Now back to your regularly scheduled programming.





I live in St. Louis, MO with my husband, am the mom/stepmom to five kids (ages 19-27), and taught high school English for 15 years. I'm over on Facebook. My first novel, ALL THE NUMBERS was published in 2006.